Hey y’all, what’s up?
Welcome to Can You Dig It, my little spot here at Mercedesbbw Blog.
I’m Diggy, the photographer/videographer for Mercedesbbw. I’ve been working with Mercedes from the very beginning. Over 20+ years, and still gong strong! I’ve worked with all the models on her websites, and have a blast doing so!
Here at Can You Dig It, I’m going to be talking about a lot of different topics dealing with any and everything, and giving my personal opinion on them. Most will be BBW/SSBBW related, and I’m going to keep it 100!!! Some of y’all will agree, some will disagree. There’ll be supporters and haters, but, I don’t care, I’m going to keep it super duper real!!!
So strap in, it’s going to be a wild ride!!!
Happy New Year!
My first topic is going to be Secrets to approaching BBWs/SSBBWs.
First off, this year we’re going to act like we got some sense!
Guys always ask and want to know how to approach a BBW/SSBBW if they’re attracted or interested in them. How do you meet them? Where do you meet them? What do you say? What’s the secret? Welp, I’m going to tell you the secret! Pay attention! Listen closely! I’m only saying this one time!
The “secret” to meeting/approaching BBWs/SSBBWs is………
There is NO secret!!!! Being respectful, sincere, honest, a damn human being is the key to approaching ANYBODY!!! AND, stop having ulterior motives!!! Some guys talk a good game, but straight up want to use these women, thinking they’re easy or desperate! Fat doesn’t mean desperate! They want sex, money, a home, ANYTHING to use these women!
Men, if you’re serious and sincere, be CONSISTENT! Don’t start out one way, then flip later on! Not cool!!!
Don’t stalk! Don’t stare! Don’t harass! If you’re at a BBW/SSBBW event, try saying, “Hi” and introducing yourself. Don’t get me wrong, I understand being nervous, or not being comfortable in crowds, but, please DON’T BE A DICK!!!
And also, don’t get offended if you get turned turned down. Not everybody is attracted to or interested in everybody! My female friends have told me zillions of times how so-called BBW/SSBBW lovers get turned down or they are not interested in them, and they are instantly called “fat bitches”, “fat cunts”, “fat whores”, all because these guys feelings are hurt or their egos are crushed. C’mon fellas, grow up!
First, and foremost, be honest with yourself! What are your intentions?? Keep it real!! With YOURSELF!!!
Be honest, respectful, and go for it! Shoot your shot!
You can meet BBWs/SSBBWs anywhere. A party, bar, club, the grocery store, a park, movie theater, sporting event, school, job, bbw events, ANYWHERE!
It’s not impossible. They’re not these hard to find, never seen, mythical creatures! They’re human beings!
Go for it! Approach them and just talk to them! And treat them how you would like to be treated! Or better yet, treat them how you would like your mother, daughter, or sister to be treated!
Can you dig it!!!!!!
